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Ethics in cooperation.

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 Okay, Happy new week to all our audience in all parts of the world. It's a new week and it comes with new opportunities. Chances of getting better in what you do, meeting the right people, making more money, living happy and successful are all embedded in this week.  Well, we looked at how to kill competition using the tool of Cooperation. I just want to tell us a few things that I'd call the main build up to Cooperation. While competing, everyone becomes an enemy( including those who can help you grow). But if you must not compete to get to where you desire to be, you must note the following: 1)Have a goal. Don't look for whom to cooperate with when you're head blank about what you want. Be a bit selfish here. Yes. Know what you want first.  2)Know what you can do alone to get your goal achieved. There is always a part to play on your own. Don't live the life that feels entitled all the time. Nothing is free, eve in free town. This is why I'd advice you to tak

Does he have two heads?

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 Right now, seeing the caption of this write up is making most of you laugh and even get suprised, especially those of us in Nigeria. I don't know if you had this experience, but I did have it. For our audience in The U.K, the U.S, Italy, Sweden and the European countries, I'll try to be as simple as possible for easy comprehension. So, back then when I left primary or kindagerten for the Junior secondary school, I wasn't so excited cos most of my good friends were going to other schools. The first six weeks had passed and we were done with exams. I came out the 4th position in a class of 38 and I was happy. My parents encouraged me to do better. Fast forward to another six weeks (2nd term), this time, I came out 16th. My parents(mom especially) didn't like it and I was spanked. While mom was spanking me, she asked me a question. She said "those who were 1st, 2nd and 3rd, are their heads two? Did you know that after that beating, I started seeing everyone as an en

Words Pt2

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Wow. I'm here again to say a big thank you to all of you who viewed, read and shared my last blog on WORDS.  I got loads of encouraging words from many people; some I know, some I don't know and as a result, I felt I should do a continuation and emphasize on the power of words. Words are a product of what you feed your soul with. This is the reason behind one great advice I received from my dad. Dad said "the man who can master the art of careful usage of his Eyes, ears, inner voices(emotion and will power ) will always have a way to navigate through life and come out successful". This is true and I've noticed it over and over again. Most of the time, the root of what comes out of the mouth is basically traced to what was taken into the mind. A young man who has a promising future might destroy himself untimely by setting his eyes and his ears on the wrong things. Frankly speaking, nobody wakes up and begins to talk anyhow. The holy book tell us that "out of

Words

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 Good morning beautiful people. Did you know that you've got some creative abilities in you? Being ignorant of this fact will make you settle for less, end up with whatever goes for you and resisting the urge to do better. I have a very very good friend and she is very smart. She is an intelligent person to the best of my knowledge. But there is this problem she has. When we are talking on the phone or when we are discussing anything and I begin to stress on doing some taskful activity to engage in, she would always end up saying, "I don't have strength" or "I don't have energy". The only reason she would say such is to keep away from doing such things and guess what, those things aren't so hard to do. In the end, she would not have strength at all. She would end up doing her best in things she didn't confess negative about and it would always turn out bad. Thank God she's been able to correct a lot of things with regards to her mouth. Some

An Inch Closer

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 Hey friends, Today is another Good day and it comes with it's challenges, opportunities, obstacles and blessings too.  Well, I've got something to tell you. I know during new years" Eve or prior to that day, we were told to write down goals and we've been told many times to Dream big. There are books with the title, "Think Big and Think Big &Kick ass in business and in life"- all respect to Dr. Ben Carson and Donald Trump. Thinking big and writing down big goals are very very good. Infact, they make you rely on your creator and they try to bring out the best in you. But there is one thing that will hinder you fro m getting all those things done and it's OVER EXCITEMENT. Over excitement will make you want to do big things first, forgetting the fact that Big things starts with small steps. If you still want to achieve those big things, kill over excitement and embrace the fact that, those goals or thoughts are just a destination. To achieve those dream

Happy New Week

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 Hello friend's!!😊 This past week was so so awesome. Thanks to all of you who make out time to click each link I share on social media. I'm grateful and I must say the stats makes me desire to put up content here. Once more I'm grateful. Mum says a big thank you to all who wished her happy birthday too😁😁. She has been so happy and she covets your prayers and wishes too. It's a new week and I guess, your plans for the week are ready. There is something I'd love to encourage you to do; which is, to maintain an unbroken focus.  I was having a discussion with my dad some weeks ago(last year actually), and he said something during our discussion. Dad said, "The world cannot say No to a man who is Less Distracted". That statement hit me so hard that it stock right in my cerebrum. In as much as we have plans for the week, please make sure you plan on how to face distractions squarely. This year is down by a week already. Start checking yourself and do some sel

Girl, Lady, Woman, Mother

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 And so after saying my prayers at about 12:00am(GMT+1) this morning, I had my blog content ready for y'all. I was set to inspire and to help someone by sharing some of my experiences in writing. But I remembered that it's another 8th of January again. Oh my World. I suspended all I wanted to write and I began thanking Almighty God for a woman so dear to my heart. The stages of growth for a lady seems so long. As my caption reads; "Girl to lady, lady to Woman and from woman to mother. Being a woman and a mother in our time and in our dispensation isn't that easy and anyone who has been a mother before now might find it a bit difficult to follow through or navigate the trends of the season.  The woman I'm talking about is the one who bore me in her womb for 9months, whose pap I did suck for 7months, whose care I'm still a beneficiary as a son, she is a wife to one man, a mother to three biological children, a mother to many other children too. She is a very very